When a Woman's Over it..

When a woman is over it, it is a sign that you better shape up or ship out.
When a woman is over it she shows signs of displeasure.
When a woman is over it she calls you on your BS before you even think of it.
When a woman is over she knows the lie you are about to tell before you tell it.
When a woman is over it, she lets you know with her subtle glaring eyes and the sucking of her teeth.
When a woman is over it she shows no sign of emotion.
When a woman is over she no longer cares about anything in the world but herself.
When a woman is over it you better steer clear of any possible confrontation.
When a woman is over it, if you want to keep her you better pull out all the stops.
When a woman is over roses can’t help and neither will apologies.
When a woman is over it life for you becomes sensitive.
When a woman is over it her eyes are dry not enough emotion to cry.
Once a woman no longer cry’s she has past the line of caring.
Once a woman decides she is done with your childish ways, there is no return.
What’s done is done, what’s said is said; when a woman is over it you have lost the best thing you could have ever had in your life. For she knows that it is not her loss it’s yours.

Random

Love is complicated. Especially when you can't quite figure out what you are suppose to do with it. Is it suppose to make you sad? Isnt love suppose to strengthen and renew your spirt? Isn't love suppose to uplift and help you to rejoice? I find that love is found in the wrong places. How can you truly be in love if you still have this desire and feeling that you are missing something?

Love is complex enough in its own nature. In addition to love most people sometimes realize that they are yet to be complete. You were not yet finished what you were set out to accomplish. This is why you feel something is missing.

If you feel like you are talking to a brick wall you probably are, beacuse it does not respond.

Why do my needs and wants become unimportant in light of things that are less important. That therefore makes me feel unimportant. So, what do you choose? To have me or not to have me.

Why? (Don’t mean to be Male bashing today but sometimes I just have to vent. Take it how you may.)

Why is it when a man has a good woman he feels the need to stray?
Why is it that a man really thinks having a “new” or “old” female friend is okay when you are in a committed relationship married or not?
Why do men think they can get away with hiding things from their significant other?
Why are men the only ones that don’t know that they suck at lying and hiding it?
Why do men not know that women were born to be investigative by nature?
Why do men think it is okay to disregard the feelings of your woman?
Why is it the woman who puts her life on hold to support her man and family, but the man can not do the same?
Why is it so hard for a man to admit the truth, are you fearful of losing what you have?
Why must a man always want their cake and eat it to?
Why must you void emotion to be truly successful and happy?
What happened to the days of courtship?
What happened to the days of a man truly providing for his woman?
Why does a man feel like he is the kingdom of his throne?
Why does a man not realize to be successful in the kingdom you must first have a Queen by your side?
Why do most relationships follow the same path every time?
Why do woman always suffer the brunt of the emotional breakdown?

Can you answer these questions? Don’t get mad because you know they are all true...

What I realized about love..

1 Corinthians 13:4-7: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

The above says it all... if you can truly read the passage above and truly feel like you exude each and every aspect of what it means to truly "Love", then you have far surpassed many person plight for self realization.

If however you read the above passage and think, wow, I don't have it. Then do not despair or lose sight of what can be achieved. To truly "Love", takes a lot of soul searching. You must first realize what the higher power has you on earth to do and then you will truly realize "love" and all of a sudden without question you will feel a sense of freedom, carelessness and peace like no other.

If you are wondering, I am still searching and learning about this feeling as I have not yet realized what it is and how to maintain.

Nameste'

Fortunate

Fortunate

Fortunate; Coming by good luck or favorable chance; bringing some good thing not foreseen as certain; presaging happiness; auspicious; as, a fortunate event; a fortunate concurrence of circumstances; a fortunate investment.

Isn’t it funny that the word Fortunate has a definition totally separate of the definition that we know? What does it mean to be fortunate?

There are many people in the world whom owe their lives to being fortunate. They are fortunate to have been brought up in the situation they were brought up in and blessed with the family and friends that they have. They are fortunate to have been able to get a higher education when they wanted it and fortunate to be able to lead the lives that they do. That is what fortunate should mean.

Husband’s and Wives are fortunate to have been able to find someone that they can not live without. Someone whom they can build their lives with and tell there inner most secrets. Someone in whom they can build morals and values with and put those into a family they build. To have another person in your life whom you can dream with and work with to make that particular dream come true.

American’s are fortunate to have been able to vote into office a powerful man whom has gained the respect of the majority of not just the United States but of the world. We were fortunate enough to look past the issues of some of American’s and not let that taint our mind enough to know what the right thing to do was grant America the wish for hope and change.

I am fortunate to be able to read, write, talk, laugh, cry, and love. Emotions that are often time absent from the people of some countries. Those people are not fortunate in the way we think being fortunate is however they probably feel that they are fortunate because they have the most powerful thing on earth. That is that they are Fortunate to have love and family. Two things that most of us take for granted.

So what is most important in your life that you are fortunate to have does it compare? Is it tangible? Can you live without it?

Are you fortunate?

Relationships, Let's take a look...

Relationships, an interesting thing they are, one minute they are solid and the next not so much. Relationships and where they are truly headed actually intrigues me. I have learned that relationships are not easy and to make them work takes hard work on both parties involved. It takes you to take a step back and look at yourself and say “do I want this to work and is it really worth my time?” If the answer is inevitably ‘YES” then you need to step your game up and put A LOT more effort in it to make it successful. Get rid of the outside influences that may cause you to stray because those outside influences will not be there when you decide to take the leap. Don’t leave your 80% to get something that’s only worth 20% you will be disappointed. If the answer is ‘NO” then do you both a favor and fall back and make room for the next. But if you choose the latter, don’t hold on to your “woulda, shoulda, could and don’t want no one else to have what you let go...” So ladies and gents take heed to my advice if you wish. It makes sense when you say it to your self.

Check out the video link below on Marriage (which is typically the next step in a successful relationship), what do you think...

Lemons are Positive!!

The old saying is that “When life gives you lemons you make lemonade”. So how do we apply this thought provoking phrase to most people’s lives?

Positive Movement. There is this thing going on around the world it seems well, at least on the blogs, and twitter. People are obsessed with taking the energy from our new president and invoke change and positivity through their lives. I believe it all started with the phrase above. So, in thinking whether life is fair or if you were dealt a bad had in life. There are two things for sure. There will always be someone better than you, in a better situation and that person will always stay positive. However, there is also someone whom was dealt a worse hand in a worse situation then you but somehow they stay positive. So why is it that you can’t?

In every situation that I have been in recently where I have been down and out, I found that staying positive and thinking that things are not that bad I always seem to come out stronger. Now whether that is because of a divine intervention or because I “Choose” to be positive is up for discussion.

Whatever it is and no matter how depressed you are just remembering, lemons are always better with a smile and a little sugar.

Stay Positive and Choose to be happy starting today!