Monday, May 11, 2009

Why? (Don’t mean to be Male bashing today but sometimes I just have to vent. Take it how you may.)


Why is it when a man has a good woman he feels the need to stray?
Why is it that a man really thinks having a “new” or “old” female friend is okay when you are in a committed relationship married or not?
Why do men think they can get away with hiding things from their significant other?
Why are men the only ones that don’t know that they suck at lying and hiding it?
Why do men not know that women were born to be investigative by nature?
Why do men think it is okay to disregard the feelings of your woman?
Why is it the woman who puts her life on hold to support her man and family, but the man can not do the same?
Why is it so hard for a man to admit the truth, are you fearful of losing what you have?
Why must a man always want their cake and eat it to?
Why must you void emotion to be truly successful and happy?
What happened to the days of courtship?
What happened to the days of a man truly providing for his woman?
Why does a man feel like he is the kingdom of his throne?
Why does a man not realize to be successful in the kingdom you must first have a Queen by your side?
Why do most relationships follow the same path every time?
Why do woman always suffer the brunt of the emotional breakdown?


Can you answer these questions? Don’t get mad because you know they are all true...

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

What I realized about love..


1 Corinthians 13:4-7: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”


The above says it all... if you can truly read the passage above and truly feel like you exude each and every aspect of what it means to truly "Love", then you have far surpassed many person plight for self realization.


If however you read the above passage and think, wow, I don't have it. Then do not despair or lose sight of what can be achieved. To truly "Love", takes a lot of soul searching. You must first realize what the higher power has you on earth to do and then you will truly realize "love" and all of a sudden without question you will feel a sense of freedom, carelessness and peace like no other.


If you are wondering, I am still searching and learning about this feeling as I have not yet realized what it is and how to maintain.


Nameste'