Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Relationships, Let's take a look...


Relationships, an interesting thing they are, one minute they are solid and the next not so much. Relationships and where they are truly headed actually intrigues me. I have learned that relationships are not easy and to make them work takes hard work on both parties involved. It takes you to take a step back and look at yourself and say “do I want this to work and is it really worth my time?” If the answer is inevitably ‘YES” then you need to step your game up and put A LOT more effort in it to make it successful. Get rid of the outside influences that may cause you to stray because those outside influences will not be there when you decide to take the leap. Don’t leave your 80% to get something that’s only worth 20% you will be disappointed. If the answer is ‘NO” then do you both a favor and fall back and make room for the next. But if you choose the latter, don’t hold on to your “woulda, shoulda, could and don’t want no one else to have what you let go...” So ladies and gents take heed to my advice if you wish. It makes sense when you say it to your self.

Check out the video link below on Marriage (which is typically the next step in a successful relationship), what do you think...

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