Monday, May 11, 2009

Why? (Don’t mean to be Male bashing today but sometimes I just have to vent. Take it how you may.)


Why is it when a man has a good woman he feels the need to stray?
Why is it that a man really thinks having a “new” or “old” female friend is okay when you are in a committed relationship married or not?
Why do men think they can get away with hiding things from their significant other?
Why are men the only ones that don’t know that they suck at lying and hiding it?
Why do men not know that women were born to be investigative by nature?
Why do men think it is okay to disregard the feelings of your woman?
Why is it the woman who puts her life on hold to support her man and family, but the man can not do the same?
Why is it so hard for a man to admit the truth, are you fearful of losing what you have?
Why must a man always want their cake and eat it to?
Why must you void emotion to be truly successful and happy?
What happened to the days of courtship?
What happened to the days of a man truly providing for his woman?
Why does a man feel like he is the kingdom of his throne?
Why does a man not realize to be successful in the kingdom you must first have a Queen by your side?
Why do most relationships follow the same path every time?
Why do woman always suffer the brunt of the emotional breakdown?


Can you answer these questions? Don’t get mad because you know they are all true...

1 comment:

  1. To the first 4 questions:
    The problem with your post is that it assumes all or most women are good, appreciative, don't lie or hide things, don't hold on to the past emotions for Exs, and most of all know their self worth.
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    Why is it the woman who puts her life on hold to support her man and family, but the man can not do the same?
    It's a bad idea for men or women to put their life on hold for the family if you don't a) discuss the complete plan first. A plan that would make sure the person isn't going to lose what they build when it's their turn. b) have the right partner that will be unselfish when its their turn.
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    Why is it so hard for a man to admit the truth, are you fearful of losing what you have?
    As if women are any different!
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    Why must a man always want their cake and eat it to?
    Women are the same. Women want a good man but they also want to keep some ideals from their single life. They want to still be able to hit the club with their girlfriends. Maintain their independent side but want the man to be there when needed. Instead of finding a mate to walk out a journey with. Women want to find a mate to fill the void in their life and keep most other aspects. Women fail to realizes that a man's version of that philosophy causes many of the very questions your asking today.
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    Why must you void emotion to be truly successful and happy?
    Because there is very little truth in emotion. There can't be no success unless you tackle reality and that requires facing truth.

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    What happened to the days of courtship?
    Today their is no courtship because women stop requiring it. Kissing on the first night or week. Sex within the first week to 3 months, most times coming within the first month. So why would a man court any women when statistics show this is the pattern of most women and they have followed this pattern with 5, 10, 15 20 plus men. Why court a women when only to have her give herself to next man who would put in 10% of the effort. Today we have all kind of media encouraging women to behave in such a manner. I was watching one TV drama that had a women who was casually sleeping with two men at the same time, got pregnant, and when the men found out she was glorified and both men wanted to marry her. Wow! Straight B.S. It's all over media shows like Sex in the city, songs like Blame it on the alcohol, etc. So thats what happened to the days of courtship. The only thing that can bring courtship back is women beginning to realize their worth again.

    I'm going to stop here I got to go but I may return to answer the rest of your questions.

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